They will choose you because of the woman you are, because of how much your soul could affect and match theirs. They will always have respect for you because of their fear of Allah ‘Azzawajal. You will recognize yourself in them. They will be the male version of you. They will make the path to jannah look easier. They will make you fall in love with Allah subhana wa ta’ala. You will wish you had a son like them. When you find them, your heart will just know and feel at peace. They must be like a companion to you, who can learn from you, and support your visions, who inspires you and pushes you to do the best you can. You must both be a source of inspiration to each other. Many think love is only about romance. It’s not true. When things get tough, romance is not enough, you would like a friend, a reliable and best friend, a shoulder to rely on, to support you that is why friendship is really important in a relationship. In the beginning of a marriage, it’s pretty easy to feel in love, it’s new and exciting but give it a few years lol. Wallahi your physical beauty and all this romance will mean nothing, only true love could save your marriage. Don’t be in a hurry to look for a partner, when you are ready, Allah ‘Azzawajal will send you the right person under the right circumstances. I’m not saying that when you meet the right person it will be easy, no, I’m saying that if it’s the right person things will for sure be uneasy but it will be worth it whereas the wrong person will make it look easy but they will not be any progress. The right person is a blessing in disguise.
“you’re the happiness I asked God for.”
(via islamicrays)
Saying those words sincerely in the beginning of a marriage is easy. It is new and exciting. You are with your newly-wedded spouse and you are happy.
Give it a few years.
After all the bad habits pop up and after all the fights break out, it is not as easy to say those words anymore.
But that is when those words matter most.
If you can still say those words, after all those years being together, then you have truly learned what is true love and how to love.
Happy old couples don’t stay together because they don’t fight. Happy old couples don’t stay together because their physical beauty last. Happy old couples don’t stay together because they’re both angels.
Happy old couples stay together because despite what they know about each other and despite all the good, the bad, and the ugly that they have witnessed in each other, they still say, “I love you.”
And they mean it."
Find a husband who will call you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat.
Or will stay awake just to watch you sleep…Wait for the someone who kisses your forehead.
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares.
And how lucky he is to have you as a wife.
The one who says, ‘that’s my love’
And who will always love you for the sake of ALLAH.
Out of curiosity, he takes a peek.
Out of modesty, she looks away.
Two in love but cannot say.
She has been saving herself for the one and only.
And in her eyes he can see innocence and purity.
Out of this, his desire grows, the fire in him almost shows.
He keeps his distance, stays far away,
He wouldn’t want what is bad for the one
who took his breath away.
Late at night the door bell rings,
Her heart beats loud and her soul sings.
The talking below, she hears.
So clear in her mother’s eyes.
She can see a tear.
He has finally come to take her away.
In the play ground of love they will finally play.
He will protect her and treat her well like a real man should.
She would try to love him, please him,
And care for him as best as she could.
This is love and how it should be.
How Allah intended it to be.
Love is love and it shouldn’t change.
But everyday its meaning seems to fade away.
Love is sweet and should have an innocent start.
And later on, it will pour endlessly from your heart.
Guard your heart, love, body, and soul.
And In Shaa Allah release them only to the one,
Whose name is written in the sky,
Beside yours!